Hot Trans Life Coach 1:1 Coaching
You already know what you want.
Let’s create it.
For queer & trans icons who are over waiting and ready to take consistent, real action on the life you’ve been designing in your head for years.
What is it that you want to create?
What’s swirled around in your head for years, been scribbled on various sticky notes, and half-started three or four times?
What has the craziness of life, self-doubt, or the sheer weight of being a queer person in this world stopped you from making fully real?
What would seeing yourself follow through on these dreams mean? If you we’re acting as the leader of you life, what would you create?
This is where you go from dreaming to building.
“After working with Brooks, I now have an amazing job that I really love, I feel more connected to my friends and family, I’m more gentle with myself, and I’m super proud of who I am."
- Queer Artist & Plant-Lover (she/her)
Fact:
You are 100% capable of bringing your big, juicy, queer dreams to life.
But as a queer person, you’ve been failed by two cultures:
The first is toxic positivity culture, which doesn’t account for systemic realities or neurodivergent brains or the specific weight of being queer in this political moment. It also probably made you feel like the failure was personal when it wasn't.
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The second is what happens in a lot of queer spaces: the full validation of barriers without any movement. Like the honoring of how hard everything is without anyone following that up with "and here's what you do anyway." The sneaky way that someone moving forward can be viewed with suspicion, as if they've forgotten the struggle.
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My work was made for you because it’s neither of those two things.
Systemic barriers, brain barriers, and energetic capacity are real (like, INCREDIBLY real). They are also not the whole story of what’s possible for you and your life. Holding both is where you say:
“I understand why this is hard, and I know what I’m going to do to make it possible in a way that works for ME”.
That is what we define together.
ready to read your future?
your current timeline:
You’re self aware AF, but you’re struggling to turn that into external action on your dreams
You've started & stepped the same project, more than once!
You’re hoping to feel ready and do in short bursts but it never stays
You have brilliant, vivid daydreams about your future, but the path to getting there feels so far out-of-reach
Your finger are crossed that you won’t have one more year of saying "I'll do it when..." and then nothing happening
Where you're goinG:
You watch yourself take meaningful, consistent, and dare-I-say energized steps towards your dreams, even on hard weeks
You feel yourself building the things you want, and it’s imperfect but it’s real
You finally before you feel ready, and you’re confident AF in your ability to build what you want
Your self awareness has translated into real, impactful action
Your life is starting to look like what you’ve envisioned in your head for years
You get tingles looking back at this moment and recognize it as when everything changed!
“There were times when I wasn’t sure of my own path, but Brooks provided me with the clarity I needed to move forward with confidence. His insight has not only helped me overcome challenges, but it’s also inspired me to grow in ways I hadn’t even imagined possible.”
- 1:1 Client (she/her)
icon-level support for your actual life
This is not one of those coaching containers where you’re expected to make a complete 180 in a one-hour session, then figure the rest out on your own.
Why? Because the most impactful change happens in the small moments in-between sessions. Like when you choose not to slip back into an old pattern, hit ‘send’ on that scary but exciting text, or are deciding whether or not to follow through on your plans.
My coaching is structured so that you have a collaborator in the moments you need it most!
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55-minute sessions every other week ✨
I don’t count sessions. We work together to decide what you need support on in each one.
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24/7 voice-note coaching ✨
You get coached in the in-between moments when it matters the most, and I respond within 24 hours.
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Personalized integration work ✨
You leave each session with specific, tailored next steps for building your dreams.
Why voice-note support is special
Imagine you’re about to send the email, have the hard conversation, or show up to your first gig. That is exactly the moment that you don't have to be alone in. You send me a voice note to process the last sticky emotions that are preventing you from the next step towards your dreams. THAT is the difference between talking about change and actually integrating it, and it’s why I structured my support in this way.
Quotes from Icons who have tasted this magic!
“I feel like a different person today, and I owe so much of that to Brooks. Thank you for believing in me, pushing me beyond my comfort zone, and for always being there to guide me with compassion and expertise.”
“Brooks has been there for me on good days and bad, coaching me on my relationships with myself, friends, family, work, and more. He helped me transform my life and the way I look at everything.”
“Brooks helps you reimagine how great life can be”
“Brooks has truly helped me make a tremendous transformation in my life, and I couldn’t have done it without his wisdom, patience, and encouragement”
this is right for you if:
You’re dreaming of a creative practice, business, career that really fits, relationship you’re truly yourself in, or a life that looks & feels like you. You’re done looking out the window and imagining it, and instead know it’s time to bring it to life.
You’re incredibly self-aware! You’ve done the inner work to understand yourself, and you’re ready for that awareness to actually translate into different actions and a different life.
Your brain (neurodivergent or not) makes starting feel genuinely hard, and you want a coach who understands that this is real, not an excuse.
You’re so over the "I'll start when I feel ready" cycle, and are ready to lead your own timeline, even when that means not always feeling 100% ready.
You want guidance from someone who holds space for how hard the world is for queer and trans people right now, while refusing to let that be the reason you don't build your dream life.
Despite doubt, you deeply believe that you deserve a beautiful, intentional, and totally you life. You’re ready to build it.
An unmistakably you life looks like…
You 🤝 seeing the tangible effects of building your big queer dreams!!
You 🤝 knowing what you want and going after it
You 🤝 still taking action, even when your brain is fighting you
You 🤝 doubt, fear, and lack of confidence not stopping you like it used to
You 🤝 being the leader of your life!
Have you been wanting to make a change like this for a while…maybe even years?
I know firsthand what it is like to think that choosing yourself can wait.
I spent YEARS shrinking myself down to make others happy and believing that my dreams would happen “in their own time, if they were meant to be”. Learning how to bravely take up space, advocate for my needs, and go after what I want deeply changed me.
I learned how to communicate what I wanted in relationships without feeling guilty, and I landed a beautiful, long-term relationship. I gave up worrying that my dreams would never happen, was able to finally go after them (which is how this biz exists!). I’ve been on a 5+ year journey of honoring my unique gender expression in the face of a world that tells me I’m not allowed to, and I’ve cultivated a deeply loving relationship with my body.
I’ve learned that you are not going to wake up one day and know how to put yourself first. But it is a skill you can learn. And I have guided many queer & trans people through learning.
The world needs your full, outspoken, autonomous self building your unique dreams.
This is exactly where you do just that.
Coaching for real change
3 months
$2498
$833/month
Sessions every other week
Real-time voice note coaching between sessions
Personalized integration tasks after each call
6 months
$4998
$833/month
Sessions every other week
Real-time voice note coaching between sessions
Personalized integration tasks after each call
Time to make change in multiple areas of life
3 months or 6 months?
3 months is enough time to make real, meaningful progress on one thing you want to create. 6 months doubles that, which means we can not only progress farther on one goal, but also work across multiple areas of your life. The choice is totally yours, choose what works best for you!
Payment plans & Reduced rates
I offer monthly payment plans to all clients and reserve 20% of my roster for reduced rate clients. Reduced Rate eligibility is based on availability and an honor system.
Please refer to this graph – if you fall under the far right bottle then you qualify for a reduced rate. Otherwise, you do not. Please remember that if you apply for a reduced rate even though you do not fall under that portion of the graph, you are taking away a spot from someone with greater need.
Got a Q? I’ve got answers!
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You’re in the perfect place for coaching if you know what you want to create and are ready to commit to building it in a way that works for YOU. If you’re feeling excited while reading this page I encourage you to schedule a complimentary consultation to see if my approach is the right fit.
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Therapy tends to be focused on emotionally processing past experiences. Coaching is about looking forward and building practical systems that enable you to do what needs to be done to build your dreams. Therapy & coaching are extremely complimentary, and most of my clients are in therapy alongside working with me!
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Exactly as they sound! When we work together, you receive my personal phone number and have 24/7 access to sending me messages. I always respond within 24 hours and give you the same level of coaching I do on our calls.
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I recommend choosing 3 months for making real progress on one, specific dream. If you would like to cover multiple dreams, 6 months is the way to go.
You can also choose based on the extent of your goals. For example, 3 months is the perfect amount of time to prepare for and perform at your first stand-up open mic. But 6 months would give us enough time to get you in a local lineup.
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All that means is that you’re the exact person I built this for! Struggling to follow-through on things isn’t a personal failure, it’s a skill gap that we’ll address together. My specialty is crafting plans & systems that are tailored to how you & your brain work. Most of my clients have achieved things with me that they struggled to achieve alone for years because of exactly this.