Become a 1:1 Client

Hot Trans Life Coach

3 or 6 month 1:1 Coaching Program

“After working with Brooks, I now have an amazing job that I really love, I feel more connected to my friends and family, I’m more gentle with myself, and I’m super proud of who I am."

- Past 1:1 Client

Imagine your life when you have all the confidence you need. What are the big, juicy queer dreams you bring to life? What spotlights are you finally stepping into?

The life that you want is on the other side of embodying your full brilliance. That is where I take you.

If you’ve spent years putting everybody else first without appreciated, wanting more for your life but not feeling sure you’re deserving, and craving attention but worrying that makes you selfish & unlikeable…let me share this with you:

Feeling like you’re simultaneously too much yet never fully seen isn’t a personality trait you need to carry around any longer.

There is a way to put yourself first without being selfish or taking away from others. And there is a way to put your brilliance in the limelight and have it be truly recognized and celebrated by those around you, even in a world that tells queer people this isn’t possible for us. And you’re in just the right place to do so.

This is where you go from being misunderstood to seen. This is where you become your own biggest advocate. This is where you create the life you’re dreaming of by becoming the person you want to be.

Together, we’ll uncover the roots of your deepest patterns and replace them with confidence, authenticity, and a bold approach to being fully yourself.

Because creating everything you want in life starts with being the person who believes in your vision, importance, and power.

This is identity-Level work. watch yourself start to:

  • Walk into rooms with a grounded sense of confidence, instead of buzzy self-doubt,

  • Make decisions with a deep knowing of what you want, rather than constantly seeking reassurance from others,

  • Go after what truly matters to you instead of continuing to circle it for months and years, 

  • Stop feeling like to much & start feeling like a f*cking important genius!

You 🤝🏻 Becoming someone who honors their power & fabulousness

“There were times when I wasn’t sure of my own path, but Brooks provided me with the clarity I needed to move forward with confidence. His insight has not only helped me overcome challenges, but it’s also inspired me to grow in ways I hadn’t even imagined possible.”

- Past 1:1 Client

This is for you if you’re a queer and/or trans person who…

  • Struggles with people pleasing and is ready to stop shrinking and start self-advocating so you can get the job, relationship, community, or creative practice you’ve been telling yourself is out-of-reach,

  • Has big dreams and the ambition to achieve them, but keeps hesitating, avoiding, or overthinking,

  • Is incredibly self-aware & emotionally intelligent, but hasn’t seen that translate into real change,

  • Wants to feel confident consistently, not just on your best days,

  • Craves feeling seen & appreciated, but feels shame for wanting attention & visibility,

  • Is ready to build a life that actually reflects your true brilliance!

“Brooks helps you reimagine how great life can be”

- Past 1:1 Client

What makes this different?

This is a high-touch coaching container, which means you not only change in our sessions, but in real life. My approach walks your path with you, because you’re a human and this level of identity-based change doesn’t happen neatly in a one-hour session.

When you work with me, we will not only set your overarching vision for where you’re heading…but then break that down into specific, personalized steps for getting there.

In each session we will address how those steps are going, what roadblocks are coming up, and uncover the deeper emotional patterns that are impacting how you move towards your big vision.

When you work with me, you also receive on-going, voice note coaching between sessions. Meaning you get coached in those critical moments where you used to spiral, but are now choosing yourself.

We integrate changes around here baby…not just talk about them!!

Both my 3 & 6-month packages include:

  • Bi-weekly 55-minute coaching calls (we meet every other week, I don’t count sessions)

  • Real-time voice note coaching between sessions, because change happens in real life!

  • Personalized integration tasks (coaching homework) given after each session & tailored to exactly what you need to become your most confident self

3 months: $2499

6 months: $4998

“Brooks has truly helped me make a tremendous transformation in my life, and I couldn’t have done it without his wisdom, patience, and encouragement”


- Past 1:1 Client

Have you been wanting to make a change like this for a while…maybe even years?

I know firsthand what it is like to think that choosing yourself can wait.

I spent YEARS shrinking myself down to make others happy and believing that my dreams would happen “in their own time, if they were meant to be”. Learning how to bravely take up space, advocate for my needs, and go after what I want deeply changed me.

I learned how to communicate what I wanted in relationships without feeling guilty, and I landed a beautiful, long-term relationship. I gave up worrying that my dreams would never happen, was able to finally go after them (which is how this biz exists!). I’ve been on a 5+ year journey of honoring my unique gender expression in the face of a world that tells me I’m not allowed to, and I’ve cultivated a deeply loving relationship with my body.

I’ve learned that you are not going to wake up one day and know how to put yourself first. But it is a skill you can learn. And I have guided many queer & trans people through learning.

The world needs your full, outspoken, autonomous self.

This is exactly where you become them.

“Brooks has been there for me on good days and bad, coaching me on my relationships with myself, friends, family, work, and more. He helped me transform my life and the way I look at everything.”
- Past 1:1 Client

Imagine knowing what you want before asking others their thoughts. Imagine no longer feeling scared to share your opinions. Imagine watching yourself take real, consistent steps towards your dreams, because you no longer doubt them.

This is where you become this version of yourself.

After our time together you will:

  • Have deeper, more authentic relationships because you’re not afraid to speak your mind,

  • Have built a life that energizes you instead of burns you out, because you learned how to center YOUR needs,

  • Find yourself in the spotlight more often because you’ve embraced standing out,

  • Feel truly alive and like you’re living for YOU, because you know who you are and don’t apologize for it,

  • Have the bravery to act on your dreams, and know the roadmap for creating them,

  • Wake up everyday knowing that you’re a gift to the world and nothing about you is too much.

“I feel like a different person today, and I owe so much of that to Brooks. Thank you for believing in me, pushing me beyond my comfort zone, and for always being there to guide me with compassion and expertise.”

- Past 1:1 Client

Got a Q? I’ve got answers!

  • My coaching is perfect for queer & trans adults who have struggled with people pleasing, want to feel connected to themselves on a deeper level, and are ready to feel more fulfilled and passionate about their life. Only you can know if coaching is right for you, so if you’re feeling excited while reading this page I encourage you to schedule a complimentary consultation to see if my approach is the right fit.

  • Yes! Schedule a complimentary consultation with me. You’ll get to experience my approach before buying the coaching package. These calls are a no-pressure opportunity to see if we are a fit. Coaching is a commitment and it is important we BOTH feel like this is a good next step for you.

  • My 3-month coaching package is $2,499.

    My 6-month package is $4,998.

    I offer monthly payment plans and reserve 20% of my roster for sliding scale. Sliding scale eligibility is based on availability and an honor system.

    Please refer to this graph – if you fall under the far right bottle then you qualify for sliding scale. Otherwise, you do not. Please remember that if you apply for sliding scale even though you do not fall under that portion of the graph, you are taking away a spot from someone with greater need.

  • No, coaching is not refundable. Please purchase mindfully.